Authors call Simon Cowell America's "biggest TV bully"

by Liz Finn-Arnold, posted Jan 24th 2007 8:05PM
Simon CowellIn their newly-released book, Bully-Proofing Children, authors Joanne and Arrica Scaglione accuse Idol's Simon Cowell of contributing to the rising numbers of bullying kids. While Cowell is often applauded for his "brutal honesty," the Scagliones feel that his nasty comments send a clear message to Idol's younger viewers -- that intolerance, cruelty, and disrespect are totally acceptable behaviors.

Like any parent, I want my kids to be compassionate and kind. And under no circumstances do I want them to think it's okay to call other kids names. So, while the TV viewer in me loves Idol, the parent in me isn't quite comfortable with Idol's passion for mocking people who are clueless, desperate, weird, or just different.

Some of you will ask, "What's the big deal?" You believe American Idol is just a television show, a piece of junky or mindless entertainment, not to be taken seriously. But because Idol is a pop cultural phenomenon with millions of viewers -- especially young and impressionable viewers -- its influence should not be underestimated. Besides I believe TV should be socially responsible. Or in the very least, it shouldn't encourage a "bullying-mob mentality" where everyone is caught up in the public hazing of one person who isn't in on the joke.

The bottom line? Children learn from example. And we're probably not setting the best examples by allowing our children to watch a witty, charismatic host exhibit behavior that would get him sent to the principal's office at school.

And so the Idol controversy continues. And I'm sure it will continue to grow (although even I'm getting tired of talking about it), because bloggers, and reporters, and publicists, and talk show hosts all know that the easiest and cheapest publicity comes from talking about the biggest, most-controversial show on TV.

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Robin Lynn

Simon is truthful and honest. This is not karaoke although 3/4ths of the contestants think it is. It is a waste of the judges time when these mediocre (if that even) destroy a good song and then get mad when they are told how they really sound. Good for Simon, keep up the good work. Honesty is and always will be the best policy. No use letting someone think they are something they have proven they are not.

February 01 2007 at 9:17 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Jon

Your television is not a babysitter; nor is capable of making parenting decisions. I'm sorry if your salesperson didn't indicate as much. One could easily argue that too much coddling is a key component in watching an Idol wannabe crash upon the shores of emotional instability when faced with objectivity (that by your interpretation is too harsh). All creatures in the animal kingdom are born with defense mechanisms. They pick up others through experience and trial-and-error. When an animal makes a poor decision or doesn't have the ability to cope in the wild, we call what happens natural selection. When a human goes through the same experience we judge the obstacle as too hard or unfair. The bottom line is that nothing says that life has to be fair or easy or just. The sooner a person learns that lesson the closer he/she is towards mitigating life's unfairness.

P.S. Your writing skills are about as good as the average Idol contestant. Is that how you landed this gig?

January 25 2007 at 1:45 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
james

i don't blame simon or the other judge's myself i think it's funny when someone start's to sing and all the judge's are laughing at them and they just keep on singing don't you think if it was you and they was laughing at you wouldn't you be smart enough to stop i sure would and i sure wouldn't ask them to let me try another song that's just plain stupid and i'd rather have someone tell me the truth like simon does and not sugar coat it and say keep on working on your singing and you'll get better i feel if there stupid enough to show up and try out and suck and act like some of them do they need to be made fun of that's my opinion

January 25 2007 at 11:50 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Emily

Ever think that AI is just "sharing the pain" of their auditions? They are a singing contest show yet thousands of people that know they can't sing show up and want to try out and subjecting various people to hours on end of horrible vocals.

Can you imagine how the people behind the scenes that have to listen to all the auditions that we don't see must have horrendous headaches by the end of the day? I think that Tylenol would be a great sponsor for AI.

For all the weirdos and tone deaf auditions we do see you know there must have been hundreds if not thousands of the same that there wasn't time for. Perhaps the unnamed peons that we never see just past the stinkers along to the "celebrity judges" to allow them to feel a little of their pain.

January 25 2007 at 11:49 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
starry

If this show's total purpose was only about finding the best singer, these people would be weeded out in pre-screening. But that isn't the point. Fox, S P & R all want to have them come in so they can insult them, when they really don't have to. For that I find it shameful they insist on insulting people for ratings. I also find it shameful you people help them out by watching. What does that say about you.

It's not about these people needing to have s P & R spare them any further disappointment as they head towards a singing career. These people KNOW they can't sing. They go there trying to get on tv being bad, since they know they aren't good. Fox plays into it by putting them on. Why because so many of you are willing to sit down and watch it. Thankfully I can find something else to do. I won't help them with it. I just wish you guys wouldn't either. But I am not disillusioned.

January 25 2007 at 9:05 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
GhaleonQ

There are far worse qualities to have than being overly harsh and honest.

January 25 2007 at 12:45 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
yr

I dont feel so sorry for these people who cant sing, I feel like they know and are wishing upon a star that noone will notice that they cant sing and give them a chance. That would work if we were all deaf and blind!Families should stop encouraging tone deaf family members

January 24 2007 at 10:29 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
yr

Ian is so pathetic. He reminds me of Pee Wee Herman. He can not sing for the heck of it.He knows he cant sing!

January 24 2007 at 10:26 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Evil Pedro

Someone get Larry some tampons. I think hes out

January 24 2007 at 10:20 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Teddy


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HA!

DUH!

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Uh, this is a COMMENTARY section. If you don't have anything intelligent to say, or can't figure out how to use apostrophes or proper capitalization, expect to get made fun of. DUH!

January 24 2007 at 10:14 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

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