Authors call Simon Cowell America's "biggest TV bully"
In their newly-released book, Bully-Proofing Children, authors Joanne and Arrica Scaglione accuse Idol's Simon Cowell of contributing to the rising numbers of bullying kids. While Cowell is often applauded for his "brutal honesty," the Scagliones feel that his nasty comments send a clear message to Idol's younger viewers -- that intolerance, cruelty, and disrespect are totally acceptable behaviors.Like any parent, I want my kids to be compassionate and kind. And under no circumstances do I want them to think it's okay to call other kids names. So, while the TV viewer in me loves Idol, the parent in me isn't quite comfortable with Idol's passion for mocking people who are clueless, desperate, weird, or just different.
Some of you will ask, "What's the big deal?" You believe American Idol is just a television show, a piece of junky or mindless entertainment, not to be taken seriously. But because Idol is a pop cultural phenomenon with millions of viewers -- especially young and impressionable viewers -- its influence should not be underestimated. Besides I believe TV should be socially responsible. Or in the very least, it shouldn't encourage a "bullying-mob mentality" where everyone is caught up in the public hazing of one person who isn't in on the joke.
The bottom line? Children learn from example. And we're probably not setting the best examples by allowing our children to watch a witty, charismatic host exhibit behavior that would get him sent to the principal's office at school.
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