It is painfully obvious that you don't know what you're talking about, miss. Here are the facts...

1. Nice guys don't live past high school.
2. Women kill them. Either with loneliness or by scarring them so badly they'll never treat a woman with respect again.
3. Mystery saves lives. There are men who are so terrified of approaching women and so depressed as a result of their loneliness they are suicidal... I know, I was one of them.

There is no greater torture in the world than being the "Nice guy" because the nauseatingly asinine image of what a man is supposed to be in romantic comedies and women's magazines may be what women SAY they want, but it is not what they respond to. They have no reason to.

1. they're wussies, if a man can't stand up for himself, how's he gonna stand up for you?
2. they're everywhere, every dickhead in the world rolls up with "what's your name, what's your sign, can I buy you a drink" if you had sex with every man that approached you with what you SAY you like, you'd never get anything else done. you have to have some way of weeding out the guys that aren't interesting enough to keep you awake.
3. If mystery's approach is so creepy, why is it that his success rate is so high? and don't respond with the whole "those are girls, not women, they are young and stupid" Mystery's students have approached and been successful with women from 18 to 50 years of age. the fact you think he and his students are "Creepy" just because they are taking steps to fix a SERIOUS deficiency in their personal lives is heartless, ignorant, and dangerously closed minded. I'd suggest you investigate exactly what it is you're attacking before you pass judgement, because believe it or not, mystery's method is the best thing to happen for women since the pill. Women are always bitching about how there are no "Nice guys" when in reality they've been shitting on the nice guy for years because they just aren't attracted. Mystery teaches nice guys how to be attractive. Which, I'm not gonna lie, combined with prior baggage and emotional scars, often creates an asshole, but women share the responsibility for that, now don't they?

And have you noticed, nearly all the contestants on the Pick up artist show were closet cases!? How can Mystery be the master of human intuition and fail to see this one very important fact. Apparently, he only tries to get under women's skin.

P.S. - To Street who said it's about building a life: You don't build a life by becoming disrespectful, self-centered and internally appalling.

For a model with 3 degrees you sure dont know how to type. "Mystery does have to hit on airheads at the bar..." did you mean "Mystery has to hit on airheads..." Maybe you should stop being such a negative needy girl and you would find a guy to respect you.

What ever, your just disgusted because you would be helpless against the Mystery Method if it was done to you. If you get into the Mystery Method it isnt about picking up chicks and nailing them, its about improving the social gap that society has laid onto the male subculture that its not ok to go talke to random people, especially hot girls. Dont you thing the world would be a better place if all those shy guys were able to come up and talk to you?

ok, I was looking for a web-site to rag on the pick up artist, because I wanted a good laugh. Now after the show, I have the biggest losers thinking if they follow me with the same dog Joe had, that they might actually have a chance with me, as if. Whatever made these losers think they can approach a girl like me, it's like get a real job, make a decent living, learn how to treat women with respect, and know your audience. Then you shouldn't have a problem picking up women.

On a side note, my loser friend got picked up by the pick up artist in La. She is not that cute without make-up, and sorta an airhead, he dissed before he even hooked up with her. I would never let those classless losers hit on me, yes besides being a model, I have 3 degrees. I want a real man with an education and class. Mystery does have to hit on airheads at the bar with nothing else going for them besides the fact that they grew up with out Dads and need male attention, ha ha.

Sparky your a little off on your pick up history. RJ had nothing to do with mystery. Mystery method is an "indirect" model of pick up, predicated on the idea that womens attraction is value based. Therefore, a user of mystery method will step back, not show interest in a girl until hes found a reason, other then looks, to be interested in her, and will build his value through palm reading, fun games, magic and story telling. It has nothing to do with SS or NLP.

I think the reason so many guys is hate pick up essentially comes down to a quote from the Matrix. "You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it." Pick up's scary, trust me. When I first started I was paralyzed with fear. It takes guts to get out there and face rejection and your own fears but damn, is it worth it.

To post 12, where do you see anyone taking advantage of drunk women? I have not seen one drunk girl on the program being picked up. Mystery method works on intelligent girls, not drunk party girls. Why? Because mystery method is VERBAL! A drunk girls not going to understand your stories, shes not going to find it interesting that you can read her palm, shes not going to be able to close her eyes and see what color a cube is in the desert. You don't need game for drunk girls.

As for post 13, you just hit the nail on the head. "who aren't able to talk to girls on their own so they need a set of rules to do something that should come naturally, should be learned on their own through trial and error and many nights spent at their local drinking hole with the goal of earning a girl who is at his level"

Read that. Read it a few times and let it sink it. They CAN'T talk to girls on their own and they DO need a set of guidelines (even the best pick up artists says there are no rules, only guidelines) because it DOESN'T come naturally. It doesn't unless your the 1% of the male population that was always naturally good with girls. So if you suck with girls you will always suck with girls? Are you saying that a true man, when faced with an important defeciency (all humans have a hard wired need for intimacy and companionship, after all), does nothing about it even when there is a better way out there? I call bullshit.

As Mystery said, this isn't about girls, its about building a life. An old quote from the community says "An amateur pick up artist focuses on who he wants, a pro focuses on who he wants to be." If your focusing on the girl you want you are GOAL ORIENTATED and you will be needy and in secure because you have an agenda and girls can tell. Its about confidence and becoming your best self because thats whats truly attractive in a pick up artist. The whole process of becoming a pick up artist changes you. You need to be ambitious, determined, confident, smart, intresting, charismatic, fun, extroverted, social, a leader. Do any one of these traits seem like a bad thing? Not to me. What is truly attractive about a pick up artist are the traits he displays, traits that the training to become a PUA fosters. Its about becoming your best self.

Pick up is like the force. The force, in and of itself, is neutral, it is neither good nor bad. How you use it, however, it what makes it good or bad. I have friends who are pick up artists and are celibate till marriage. I personally have gotten four one night stand chances in the past two months and I havent taken any of them because Im not in the game for meaningless sex, Im in it to get a quality girlfriend. Pick up is just here to make sure a girl sticks around long enough to find out who you are. Pick up only goes so far, and if you are a bad person no amount of routines or stories or magic or palm reading will help you because a girl will find out sooner or later. You can't hide your true nature.

And also Cody, any good pick up artist would not be phased as being called out on being a pick up artist. I've been caught with game before. All I said was "You girls know about pick up artists? Awesome, how was my approach?" It doesnt matter, its a complete non issue. All my girlfriends right now know Im a pick up artist. Hell, Im teaching half of them to be pick up artists themselves! I have no reason to hide it because Im confident enough to know not to apologize for who I am. If a girl asks me if Im a pick up artist I calmly reply "Yes, is that going to be a problem?" Lets say I approach a friend of your and you call me out on game. So? I deal with it and if I get rejected so what? I smile, say it was nice meeting you, walk fifteen feet away and start again. Before people jump down my throat by saying "Oh their targets, you treat them like throw away toys, ect." that is not the case. Im just not goi

Cody I hope you do meet someone that tries the Mystery Method on you and you shut them down. After reading "The Game" I was able to point out dudes using it to my female friends. But needless to say, there are more Gaming methods then just Mystery's and some of them are way more useful and a lot less obvious. On a side note I despise Mystery. From reading The Game to seeing and reading other things written by and about him he is a total tool.

I watched every episode, did anyone else think that these guys are shy around women because they were gay, really I didn't think one of them was straight. Kosmo cried every episode, I'm not saying that all gay guys cry, but I saw way to many signs, Brady dying his hair "blonde" Joe D was my fav, but he gave off gay vibes as well.

@16: is "pooah" a literal pronunciation of "PUA"? Because if so I may have just broken something from laughing so hard at you.

post your picture wu. its kinda obvious why you've never been approached by one of tens of thousands of members of the PUA community. Mystery's method isn't about picking up below-average-looking tv bloggers, its about meeting 9s and 10s in the elite night clubs of the world.