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How I Met Your Mother: Do I Know You? (season premiere)

by Joel Keller, posted Sep 23rd 2008 12:02AM
How I Met Your Mother: Do I know you?
(S04E01)
Right now, Sarah Chalke plays two different doctors on two different series. And, as I ponder the mediocre fourth-season opener of How I Met Your Mother, I find it remarkable that Mother's Dr. Stella Zinman is the polar opposite of Scrubs' Dr. Elliot Reid. Elliot can be manic; Stella is always calm. Elliot is completely insecure (though less so now than earlier); Stella is rock-solid sure of herself. Elliot lets life happen to her; Stella takes action.

But who would I want to date? Elliot. Why? Easy; Elliot's interesting; Stella's boring. And therein lies a huge problem.

I've tried to get invested in the Stella-Ted relationship. But, even tonight, with Stella agreeing to marry Ted and Ted using Star Wars as a way to figure out if they're compatible, I just didn't care what the outcome would be.

It might have been because Sarah's double-duty on both shows precluded Bays and Thomas from really developing their relationship; heck, Carter told me as much during my last interview with him. But, for some reason, I'm not buying the chemistry between the two of them. Even Marshall popping up randomly because a) he wants to support his friend and b) he needs to find a job couldn't really save this storyline.

The other "do I know you?" storyline -- Barney and Robin -- was a bit more emotionally satisfying, though not particularly laugh-inducing. We can see Barney struggle back and forth between his feelings for Robin ("I caught feelings. I caught feelings bad.") and wanting to stay true to his "awesome" self.

Lily's coaching was funny; I mean, if she can keep a 5-year-old from eating paste, she can fix ol' Barn, right? But seeing "normal, caring" Barney try to have a real conversation with Robin was a bit disturbing ("It's simply de-wait for it-lightful!"). It makes me wonder if Barn is going to be pining for Robin the entire season; if it is, I don't know if I want to see it. And will that job he encouraged Robin to go for will take her away from Barney in one of those cruel twists of fate? Can this show be that melodramatic?

Other fun stuff:
- "Chimichanga!"
- Barney's ode to the bimbo was the Best Barneyism this week.
- I'd dump Stella for hating Star Wars. Thouch Chalke does a passable Wookie impression.
- Think local news isn't as silly as Robin's channel? You haven't been watching lately...

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limoeg

I think that it was a great episode.And I don't believe that Stela is mother.

September 26 2008 at 8:47 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
swine59238

I loved, loved, loved this episode. Wasn't laugh out loud during the whole thing, but, hell, why should it be? The reason I love this show so much is because they actually develop the characters. I mean, the Stella character has been more fleshed out in and developed in a handful of episodes than any of the Friends were in 10 years!

I'm surprised no one has mentioned the amazing editing job done in this episode, especially the 5 minutes or so when they switch quickly back and forth between the Lily-Barney conversation and the Ted-Marshall conversation. A lesser show never would have thought to juxtapose the two; they'd just show it as two separate scenes. On this brilliant show, though, they realized they had two conversations dealing with opposite aspects of relationships: the Barney section shows irrationality of emotions and the Ted section shows the nitty gritty "a relationship can't just be based on love" idea. The way they cut back and forth between the conversations at exactly the right moment...just amazing, the stuff of indie films, not sit-coms.

September 25 2008 at 12:48 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
FiannaLord

I liked this episode, but for a season premiere it felt weird to have the characters so separate from each other. Aside from the very beginning, there was no interaction between Barney/Lily/Robin and Ted/Marshall/Stella. HIMYM is usually at its best when it's got a good group dynamic going, which is why I say good, but not great.

Ode to Bimbos was de- wait for it -lightful, though.

September 24 2008 at 4:09 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
NearFar

this might be the weakest HIMYM review I ever read on TVSquad... is this a new reviewer?!?! We would have had Barney's O to a Bimbo all transcribed! Where is the Barnyism!??!

Sigh... i hate recession.

September 23 2008 at 6:18 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
GL

Didn't really dig this episode. Was bored to tears in parts. Chuckled once or twice, but not enough to make it worthwhile. Not to mention that Star Wars mentions make me cringe.

September 23 2008 at 5:37 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Karen

I laughed out loud consistently throughout this episode. NPH alone makes this show appointment television. What do I care about Ted/Stella's relationship when it provides fodder like the scene of Ted and Marshall gaping at the TV "121 Awesome Minutes Later" and getting ready to watch Star Wars again?

September 23 2008 at 5:08 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
George

As HIMYM is still a sitcom at heart, I'm thinking that perhaps Robyn will take the new, more serious news job, which *won't* require her to move away... but one of her first stories will be a "searing" expose of illegal immigration, after which it will be revealed that she herself is an illegal immigrant... at which point Barney will step forward and offer to marry her so she can stay in the US. Much laughter and will they/won't they moments will follow as Barney attempts to explain to Robin that he actually loves her, and then shortly after he gives up she'll realize she's in love with him, and then David Schwimmer and Jennifer Aniston will make cameo appearances, and aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh! Sorry, had an aneurysm there.

September 23 2008 at 3:45 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
vacelts

I'm still not sure if Stella's the mother. But I loved the whole "must love Star Wars" movie thon.

The scene immediately generated a conversation in our household.

What movie is so important to you that your significant other must like it if you two are to spend the rest of your lives together?

http://redlightnaps.wordpress.com/2008/09/23/himym-4-do-i-know-you/

September 23 2008 at 12:05 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
CP

That ode to bimbos was hilarious. NPH was totally robbed of his well-deserved Emmy.

Ted in relationships makes the show drag because we all know, every time, that the relationship is eventually going to go down in flames unless the woman is Your Mother. If that seems unlikely, then's it's just a matter of waiting for the inevitable, which is distracting.

September 23 2008 at 11:08 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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nattyff

I'm totaly wth you in that one... and Stella is not the mother, so we are just seen fill up....

The other charaters part, specially Barney were great, they made me LOL many times, good to have mother back!!!

September 23 2008 at 1:45 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Donna

I think "Mother" is dying a slow death. I'm as bored as Ted's two kids with this story. Let's just get to the part where we find out WHO the real mother is already!

Meanwhile, I'm sort of disappointed that no one (so far) at TV Squad has done a review of the Big Bang Theory's first show of the season.

September 23 2008 at 11:00 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

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