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Preview of Jon & Kate Plus 8's new season: Two minutes of crippling sadness

by Kona Gallagher, posted May 21st 2009 2:00PM
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Even if you've never seen a single episode of the TLC mega-hit Jon & Kate Plus 8, chances are you've been hearing a lot about it lately. Specifically, the rumors of infidelities, open marriage contracts, and staying together not for the kids, but for the cameras. One should always take tabloid stories with a grain (or a pound) of salt, but when the issues make their way onto the actual show? Perhaps there is something to them.

TLC just released a two-minute clip of the May 25 season premiere of Jon & Kate Plus 8 (video also after the jump), and, well, it's awkward, to say the least. One of the hallmarks of the show is that Jon and Kate always squeeze onto a love seat together to do their interviews. In the season premiere, however, each one is sitting alone on the couch. Gone is the playful banter; in its place is a woman who looks as though she's spending every ounce of her energy trying not to scream, and a man who just looks beaten down by life. It's not exactly the family-friendly entertainment viewers are used to.

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    ©BAUER-GRIFFIN.COM Reality stars Jon and Kate Gosselin play with their German Shepherd dogs and then go to speak together at the Pennsylvania Women's Show at the Farm Show Complex and Expo Center in Harrisburg. NON-EXCLUSIVE May 2, 2009 Job: 90503M2 Redding, Pennsylvania www.bauergriffin.com www.bauergriffinonline.com

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This has been coming for a while. Last season's finale ended with Kate gritting her teeth while she and a weary Jon had a "not fight." You know what I'm talking about; where they just want to have a knock-down drag-out, but they're trying to keep it civil because they're in public? I'm paraphrasing here, but the exchange basically went like this:

Jon: "Hey, remember when I met you, and we got along, and I was still able to have an opinion and a backbone? And I wasn't constantly being belittled on national television? Yeah, that was nice."
Kate: "Hmm. I don't recall. You know what I do recall? That time I got a bunch of book deals and a grip of cash for belittling you on national television. Now that was nice."
Jon: "How about we quit the show?"
Kate: "How about you shut up?"

Again, that is not what was actually said, but I defy you to watch that scene and not hear those words directly beneath the surface. They obviously didn't quit the show, but based on the preview we've been given, it seems to only be a shell of what it once was.

Granted, it's only two minutes, but Jon and Kate do not interact or even look at each other a single time -- and they're celebrating the sextuplets' birthday. They're having a birthday party for their kids, and mommy and daddy seem to be refusing to come within fifty feet of each other. Reports even have them leaving the party in separate cars.

Kate and TLC seem to be milking this controversy for all its worth, hoping to turn it into big ratings. Jon, for his part, seems to be laying low as much as he can, just hoping for the whole thing to blow over. What's not mentioned is the children. There are eight kids living in this house and no indication of what they do or do not know.

Ultimately, it's good TV, but the question is, will it alienate the show's core audience? The ones who tune in to see a large, happy family's day-to-day life? Or will it bear an entirely new audience? Those who tune in strictly for the Schadenfreude; who want to see the exact moment it becomes Jon Minus Kate Plus Eight.

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wulfn1

I just wish they'd show that clip again of her denying her child water only to lift the bottle to her own lips while the child pitifully looks on, muttering how mean she is.

*sigh* it just warms the cockles of one's heart!

Time to turn this show OFF. Stop feeding the INSANITY of the rabid fans and the equally rabid female who is the "STAR" of her own show, the "all about me show ,starring Kate Gosselin.... oh ya, she has 8 children which you'll also see her ignoring"

The Dilleys got it right. Show important days in the children's life once in a blue moon. I noticed they're still together, and seem to still have "got it together".

July 13 2009 at 12:48 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Patti

Kate is going to be one sorry woman when Jon's gone, the kids won't have anything to do with her, and the money just doesn't feel that good anymore. It seems logical to me that if 1,000,000 can see that Kate is using the children to make money, fame, etc, then at least one of the kids will figure it out too. Last night, Kate stupidly screams through-out the house "who pooped? call out,I can't hear you, who pooped? Finally, maddy confesess that joel pooped. kate has the nerve to suggest that maddy wipe Joel! This ought to be quite the joke for mean spirited school children. But of course Kate has reasured us that "they go to a very nice school where the parents aren't into this." uh huh, Is that "The Make Believe School" where you couldn't even address, or thank any of the children for coming to the 5 y.o. party?

I was so embarrassed for Kate at that party. Can you imagine the host at the party announcing that this seemed like a very long party? "Does anyone else feel like this party is just too long? Next time it's just eat and leave." I would have excused my child right then, so we could have gone somewhere to have some fun, and feel wanted. Honestly Kate. You need some serious help. I suggest maybe you add a little spirituality into the childrens life. Perhaps a loving place of worship where the children can learn that God created each of us to love one another. I'm hoping for the best Kate, but prepared for something very different!

June 16 2009 at 2:02 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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Patti

Pipe dream surely heard Kate say "I cannot believe my babies are 5! Five years old! They have conversations, etc. Kate, 5 years ago did you ever imagine that the majority of your viewers would be pleading with you to get back to being a mother and loving wife? Did you ever imagine that you or the children would need a 7 figure house including acreage to build at least 28 other homes for families in need? Did you really need a barn? We know how much money you make per episode, talks, books etc. How much of that money is being donated to children who really need the money? Did you imagine walking into a spa for you and your daughters "treatment" and then Boast "well, somebody has to do it." Maybe so Kate, Maybe so. Still somebody named Kate Gossline needs to create a new imagination: Move into a comfortable reasonable house that you can afford so you can stay home with your children. Spend some time and imagine what it would really feel like if you and Jon where happy together. Imagine how it will feel to 8 young children when they learn they all won't live in that house together. Imagine them calling a new woman "mommy" (the woman who sees jon for who he is and loves him unconditionally.)
Jon has propably fought his way to exhaustion just to feel loved, cared about, respected and honored. Imagine not what you dreamed of as a struggeling nurse, but who you were as someone who cared for others.
My heart hurts thinking that when you were a nurse, hoping you could snag one of those "rich doctors", you setteled for a computer analyst whose father was a orthepedic surgeon. Did you year Jon loving say how his dad spent hours helping children in need. Kate, who are you?

June 18 2009 at 12:00 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Nette

What comes out from the mouth, may come from a selfish and stony heart.

Do you notice the words that come out of Kate's mouth? We often hear her say "It's so annoying", "I'll get a heart attack", etc.

If truly she considers her children as blessings, why does she complain a lot? She should "walk the talk" not just "talk the talk".

Even when she tries to go positive, she still says "ridiculously delicious", ridiculously good"....

However, she is now "ridiculously" unrecognizable with her heavy make-up and her "ridiculously" long eyelashes. What in the world are all those adornment for?

Because there seems to be no redeeming factor in HER SHOW, I no longer enjoy watching it. May the kids grow up well despite the "blindness" and denials of the parents. Adios.

June 03 2009 at 2:31 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Rolling my Eyes

I even wonder if Kate is a "neat freak" any more. I don't see her running and cleaning up anything anymore. I don't see dirt getting on her nerves, or dust. Early in the episodes, she stated she had "OCD". And no cleaning lady was good enough. YAWNNNNN. I mean, hand sanitizer, and the while 9. Now I don't see no kinda wet naps....rofl. I guess LYING IN THAT TANNING BED BEHIND OTHER PEOPLE, took the OCD fear away. Oh yeah, why the body guards, for promoting a book during tours. I still don't get that one. And I heard she was doing a cook book next. What is going to be on the menu, Lé Peanut Butter and Jelly Sammiches, a la modé, with encrusted bread ends, served on paper plates....with a side of pineapple chunks, just right for little fingers? snickerin....

May 28 2009 at 6:34 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Nette

No matter what Christian counseling they have, IF one of them has delusions of grandeur about her knowledge and skills and has a holier-than-thou attitude THAT CANNOT BE VANGUISHED, it's an exercise of futility.

Top that with her refusal to see herself in the mirror, and her stubborn blindness and being in denial to reality; and you see a bottomless pit that cannot be reached.

And her tendency to point the finger at others (Jon, kids, papparazi, you name it) makes it seem even more hopeless. I may be wrong, but I can also seem to detect some sense of entitlement that selfish, bratty people have.

So many viewers getting annoyed by her ways means she's the COMMON DENOMINATOR in the family's problems. No wonder she's not including her parents in her family life, no wonder she can't even be considerate to her own brother's family. What kind of a person is this?

I hope that BEFORE REGRET COMES TOO LATE, she comes to her senses and makes determined efforts towards honest-to-goodness improvement.

Imagine how damaging it is to leave in a hostile environment!!! I hope, for the sake of the kids, her eyes will open to reality. The kids' physical and psychological well-being should be a GOOD MOTIVATOR TOWARDS IMPROVINHG HERSELF.

May 28 2009 at 3:56 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Nette

We turn into the "Jon & Kate Plus Eight" show TO WATCH THE KIDS who are simply lovable and fascinating. And what a kind and loving big sister Cara is - we love her and her siblings.

But why don't you just title the show simply as "KATE" in capital letters because a big part of the show is Kate talking about herself, her ways, her thoughts, etc. She can keep those to herself because we're not interested. Please THE SHOW IS NOT ABOUT KATE - QUIT FEEDING HER EGO!

I pity Kate, however, because she seems to be either stubbornly blind or in denial to reality. Before regret comes too late, why doesn't she take steps at improvement now?

Until it is obvious that she finally realizes her problem (would she enjoy being treated the way she's treating Jon and others?), has remorse, and attempts at improvement, we'll be pleased at watching her. Viewers are only reacting to what they see and it's not good - viewers are not persecuting Kate. We only want to see good, nice kids without the aggravation.

I may be wrong, but it seems like Kate's kissing the kids and her singsong voice to them during the sextuplets' 5th birthday, WAS JUST FOR SHOW. She used to have strict, demanding voice to the kids, used to get annoyed when they were in the way, and was never heard saying "sweetheart" or "love" or "darling" and other endearing words to them -- unless we missed those rare, rare episodes. Actually, the kids are sometimes included in her variety of complaints.

So she's a neat freak - she can easily discard that if her priorities are right. WHICH IS HER PRIORITY: peace and love in the family, or fear and chaos in kowtowing to her obsession.

Kate, take your words seriously - THE KIDS ARE REALLY A BLESSING whom one needs to nurture and be tolerant at even when they get into innocent mistakes. You yourself were also young once and who knows what childish mistakes you must have done.

May 27 2009 at 12:00 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Krista

Kate uses these magazines & tv shows to promote book sales,but when they use her for stories for their benefit,she doesn't like it.Seems pretty one way to me.NOW their show salary has gone from 60 per episode to 75k will it ever stop? when will this woman stop? i think she has gotten enough freebies.Her behavior was so fake she should of had phoney written on her forehead,
( phoney tears included) and Jon should of had dead inside written on his! She has anger? ROFL! why? the bad publicity may cost her a few bucks? her dirty little secrets are out? that she's never home? and a lousy all about her mother? who cares more about her looks & money then her kids? thats the real reason she's mad! and the comment "won't let it take me down" ?? what the hell is that? ANY NORMAL,LOVING,CARING,WIFE & MOTHER WOULD HAVE SAID " I WON'T LET THIS RUIN MY FAMILY,& WILL WORK ON MY MARRIAGE,NO MORE SHOWS" and now she is in California tanning? with mr bodyguard! its just unreal. If John did cheat,and she knows he did,it would not shock me she turned around and did it,she seems VERY spiteful! and all of a sudden pay attention to her fans? why? because she sees her fans are fit to be tied with her behavior? anger honey,is what people have for YOU for what you are doing to those kids,you don't know what anger is!

May 26 2009 at 7:58 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Cathy

While I agree with alot of things people here are saying I would also point out that just about anyone in thier situation would take advantage of the "perks" also. If resorts were offering you free trips, if surgeons were offering to take care of your problem areas you would take them up on it in a heart beat and that would not make you a bad person just like it dosen't make them. If they didn't have the show and the books etc. They would be in DIRE straights caring for 8 kids. And yes it was thier decison to bring them into this world but they are doing what they can to take care of them Because of the show TLC is paying them, not us like the Octomom. So they take trips and get pampered on occasion, who wouldn't need that after 8 kids? If you look at the earlier episodes you can see alot of love between Kate and Jon. Some of that seems to have faded, but I think they could rekindle it. The one thing that bothered me on the preview was they kept saying how much they loved thier kids, but neglected to mention love for one another. They need to go away on a 2nd honeymoon, reconnect and then come back and get marriage counseling. To the people who talk like the children are being abused please you can tell the kids are happy and well cared for. Lots of moms and dads work and have to spend time away from thier families. Look at military personnel they are gone for YEARS at a time, but no one says they are bad parents. I wisht Jon and Kate well and hope they can work through this.

May 26 2009 at 4:47 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
sandy

I am sorry but Kate is really nasty and mean to Jon.....She belittles him and treats him like the kids. I just can't watch it anymore. I pray they work it out for the sake of those babies. I will pray

May 26 2009 at 2:49 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Nette

WE SHOULD NOT FEED THE WHIMS AND EGO OF A PERSON WHO CANNOT BE A ROLE MODEL.

A good role model is humble and quiet, and even without people watching, still does what is right in God's eyes and is a blessing to everyone he/she meets.

May 26 2009 at 12:04 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

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