Why I'm not watching Jon & Kate anymore
I tried, I really did, to watch the new season on TLC, but a few weeks into the new season and I'm bailing. Unlike Maureen Ryan, I was a fan of Jon & Kate before their faces were splashed across US Weekly and People. Now, episodes devoted to the kids birthday parties are painfully awkward to watch. There was a brief mention in the season opener where Jon & Kate acknowledged that they were going through "some problems", but while the show can go on pretending they're one big happy family that lives for elaborate birthday parties and trips to the zoo, the rest of us can't. Now, I'm wondering, are once loyal fans also jumping ship on this show?
Watching the show now is a weak exercise in cheap schadenfreude. While I will happily take pleasure in seeing any rich housewife get skewered on Bravo, I can't watch Jon or Kate get raked over the coals with the same pleasure. Why? Because there are little kids involved. Little kids, who, for anyone like myself, that has been watching the show from the start on TLC, are just plain, normal adorable kids about to get a harsh does of reality way too early.
Before the scandals, the show was popular for another reason: it was cute, sometimes funny, sometimes heart-warming reality television. Unlike anything from the Real Housewives camp, Jon & Kate had an air of suffocating wholesomeness and cloying sweetness that became part of the show's charm. Yes, Kate yelled a lot and Jon was too laid back, but you could tell they loved the kids. Sometimes, the voyeuristic charm of watching a family do nothing more special than make treats with their (eight) kids and put them to bed is enough of a distraction on a Monday night.
Of course, that's all ruined. While the rumors of infidelity on both parents' part have saturated the tabloids, there's one story that has rarely been touched. What is all this doing to the kids? The youngest six have grown up with a TV crew following them around, which can't be healthy to their level of self-importance, and now, the cameras are capturing the disillusion dissolution of their parents marriage. There's no way this is healthy for them.
While ratings are through the roof for this season (the season premiere nabbed 9.8 million viewers) due to the added exposure, I bet there are other regular viewers who've turned away for the same reason. Watching a family with eight kids self-destruct in front off TV cameras isn't anything I want to be a part of. So, now that we're a few episodes into the season, are other once loyal fans turning away?

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