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Why I'm not watching Jon & Kate anymore

by Hemal Jhaveri, posted Jun 8th 2009 10:03AM
Jon and Kate Plus 8I tried, I really did, to watch the new season on TLC, but a few weeks into the new season and I'm bailing. Unlike Maureen Ryan, I was a fan of Jon & Kate before their faces were splashed across US Weekly and People. Now, episodes devoted to the kids birthday parties are painfully awkward to watch.

There was a brief mention in the season opener where Jon & Kate acknowledged that they were going through "some problems", but while the show can go on pretending they're one big happy family that lives for elaborate birthday parties and trips to the zoo, the rest of us can't. Now, I'm wondering, are once loyal fans also jumping ship on this show?

Watching the show now is a weak exercise in cheap schadenfreude. While I will happily take pleasure in seeing any rich housewife get skewered on Bravo, I can't watch Jon or Kate get raked over the coals with the same pleasure. Why? Because there are little kids involved. Little kids, who, for anyone like myself, that has been watching the show from the start on TLC, are just plain, normal adorable kids about to get a harsh does of reality way too early.

Before the scandals, the show was popular for another reason: it was cute, sometimes funny, sometimes heart-warming reality television. Unlike anything from the Real Housewives camp, Jon & Kate had an air of suffocating wholesomeness and cloying sweetness that became part of the show's charm. Yes, Kate yelled a lot and Jon was too laid back, but you could tell they loved the kids. Sometimes, the voyeuristic charm of watching a family do nothing more special than make treats with their (eight) kids and put them to bed is enough of a distraction on a Monday night.

Of course, that's all ruined. While the rumors of infidelity on both parents' part have saturated the tabloids, there's one story that has rarely been touched. What is all this doing to the kids? The youngest six have grown up with a TV crew following them around, which can't be healthy to their level of self-importance, and now, the cameras are capturing the disillusion dissolution of their parents marriage. There's no way this is healthy for them.

While ratings are through the roof for this season (the season premiere nabbed 9.8 million viewers) due to the added exposure, I bet there are other regular viewers who've turned away for the same reason. Watching a family with eight kids self-destruct in front off TV cameras isn't anything I want to be a part of. So, now that we're a few episodes into the season, are other once loyal fans turning away?

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Mindy Green

This is becoming painful to watch! The birthday show was awkward and sad. The kids DO seem anxious and quieter than usual. I like Kate (not a popular stance!) and I used to like Jon, but I think she needs to lighten up and he needs to grow up. I hear him whining about how young he still is and her freaking out over germs and just want to shake them both. He was a bonafide ADULT when he got into this deal and a little dirt never killed a kid! I've been married 22 years and raised five kids....it's a tough life for sure. My marriage nearly broke up at the 10 year mark and it CAN be healed. But you have to TRULY put the kids first and WANT it. My prayers are with this Christian family....I want to see them make it!

June 29 2009 at 4:20 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
gina

personally I do not feel that the State of Pa should have allowed the show from the get go and the kids do deserve to have some priavate moments and they get none of that being on camera all the time .

I never did like Kate from day one and I still do not like her she is obnoxious and the money has went to her head for sure. Its all about her and I feel she is exploiting the kids for the money and its wrong .

Before the sixtuplets she was a nurse and after the children reached a certian age she could have put the kids in pre school and went back to work as a nurse and given her children a chance at a normal childhood without all the cameras .. in their lives and maybe her marriage would still be intact if she was not so obnoxious

June 23 2009 at 9:38 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Patti

Right on PJD-----

June 22 2009 at 10:01 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
eahoang

I totally agree. I used to be a big "fan" of the show and watch it regularly, and now I never watch it. I think it has been taken too far and should have ended a few seasons ago. I think the kids should be able to grow up like kids and not in front of the media and paparazzi all the time.

June 22 2009 at 7:09 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
texana

I enjoyed watching Kate shop, cook soup, and fold laundry. Now she has passed on those chores and the kids, it seems,to "assistants" in favor of spa days and beach trips. I don't watch anymore.

June 22 2009 at 9:29 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Replica Christian Louboutin

I became disenchanted with J&K+8 the episode they moved into their mansion and continued to act like they were "just simple folks doing this on their own."

June 22 2009 at 12:36 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Patti

okay Jon, you promised you would never do another show when your children indicated they didn't want to do it anymore. Take a look at U-tube where right before the shooting started Maddy asked for some water. Kate refused her the water, then asked one of her assistants to throw her a bottle of water, took a big sip and with held it from Maddy! Kate in the most hostile way looked at the younger children (with the most reprehensible face and ordered them to sit still.
Next, it is revealed that Kate grabbed one of the young girls, hit her on her bottom as the young child tried to shield herself while crying out loud. Finally the two 8 year olds were asked what they thought of their parents. The silence was deafening--Cara answered in a voice you couldn't hear. Maddy said "well, they are okay, but I still like Daddy better.

I will not watch one more episode of Kate getting increasingly out of hand with the children. They can never come into the parents room again? Is she kidding? What if one of the children is in danger? Kate is acting like a very scary mother. She drinks a huge sip of water ONLY after Maddy says she is thirsty, she "spanks" little 5 year old and then remarks "I will discipline my children as i see fit!" With her increasing anger, I am beginning to fear for the safety and certainly the welfare of these children. Jon, PLEASE get back to those kids before someone gets hurt! It wouldn't surprise if CPS got called out there pretty soon.

Kate I have two grown beautiful young women as daughters. I never once layed a hand on either of them. The rule in our house was "hands are not for hitting, they are for loving'! I didn't have 8 children, you are right, but you could give me 20 right now and I would never humiliate publicly or privately one single child. Children have egos, they have self esteem, they have pride--how dare you. I only wish you were sitting here now asking mady for that sip of water. What did she learn? No more, absolutely no more of this train reck of ten. Only prayers--please Jon open your eyes! Karma is heading Kate's way! I see it on some other news show!

June 18 2009 at 2:07 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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Patti

Kate,
Nothin you got ain't that! Your airdo?? What?? Free belly button on christian bikini mom strange looking,
No maternal mom? No maternal DaD? No Brother" Where is Aunt Judi? Where are the best briends you had at the 3 year old "carnival"? what was up with you dragging those childs down the rope with all your attention getting devices when Jon wanted to quietly push them in the stroller? Hey Kate "Body BODY" Guard Watch Out!

June 22 2009 at 9:59 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Amy

I'm really so sick of people making a huge deal about every little minute thing that Kate or Jon does. Do you really think that your b@#$%ing is going to solve anything? Really. If you them to fade away, then stop watching the show, stop reading the articles, and stop making them desirable. One of my co-workers (PA State Police Trooper) almost hit the paparazzi outside their home in PA a week or so ago. There were so many crowded outside their property and the Trooper was told they can $10,000 for a picture of Kate. Why the hell would you people want to promote that crap???? All of your gossip is making sleezeballs like the photogs rich. My vote is to just let the Gosselins fade. Hopefully their children can be normal someday.

June 17 2009 at 10:43 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
scifi.lefemme

I have stopped watching. Used to love the show, the kids, the family, but agree with most of what has been said.

And, a slight case of of guilt and hypocrisy. We all keep crying exploitation, and urging the parents to step in. But in "reality"... we should all look in the mirror. There would be no show if millions of viewers did not tune in every week to watch all the exploitation.

From now on, I'm choosing to just say no.

June 10 2009 at 1:27 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

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