Review: Men of a Certain Age - Let It Go
by Allison Waldman, posted Dec 15th 2009 7:10AM
(S01E02) There's a possibility that Men of a Certain Age could become grumpy old men of a certain age. But I don't think that's going to happen because there's still enough irony and levity to keep the show from wallowing into a miserable experience. These guys aren't grumpy all the time and when they are, it feels justified. It's hard not to share their feelings. These are every American men in a lot of ways, well-off, spoiled to an extent, wondering what's going on in the world that's suddenly not as young as it used to be. This was an episode about injustice and fairness, and it's not surprising that our men feel like they've been subjected to too many slights, too many instances when they've been dumped upon, and too many things that have them pissed off. Read on for more about how our three mess-keteers handled the weekly travails.
Terry and Owen's injustices were legit. Who hasn't felt like Terry when someone does something rude in a social situation and leaves you fuming. He was entitled to be fuming when Mr. SUV wouldn't even acknowledge that he'd nearly hit him with the car.
But what made the situation atypical was that when Terry actually confronted the man at his home, he had no idea what kind of justice he wanted. Was he waiting for an apology? Did he want to smack the guy in front of his baby and wife? Repeating the incident with the steroid dope allowed for some semblance of vengeance from Terry. I still don't think he was happy about it, though, do you?
Owen, on the other hand, fought the battle on two fronts -- at work and at home. His father squeezed him about the loaner car and his wife squeezed him with her reaction. Owen was where he always seems to be -- stuck in the middle. And he hates that. His father is a life-long adversary and Owen knows he must be played. It might have been interesting to see how Owen countered his father's demotion if Melissa hadn't blasted her father-in-law at the workplace to set up Owen's valid argument about a merit system versus a shit-on-your-son system.
I'm worried about Joe. Romano's casting is especially good here because you don't expect him to be seething with resentment and pain. Just the idea that he's a lifer at the resident motel, for instance, made him blanch. He can't see what a wreck he's made of his life. Of course, destroying the Incredible Hulk blow up balloon is proof that Joe is one very unhappy person. He found the courage to ask his soon-to-be-ex if they were free to date, then loathed the answer. It was the trigger for the self-destructive behavior that got him separated in the first place, but even Owen and Terry's pointing that out did no good. Joe's journey could become a very ugly downward spiral no matter how many bets he wins.
There's not a lot of action in Men of a Certain Age, and I kind of like that. It's more about the daily life, the ordinary life, the lives we're living ourselves. This is good TV.

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