I actually thought Bailey's nervousness leading up and during the date was adorable and right on target. She's never had to question herself as a surgeon, but when she got divorced, she inevitably was forced to question her abilities as a wife. She was married for years to the only man she'd ever slept with. She never had to navigate the treacherous waters of the grownup dating pool. So it would make sense that she'd have no idea what men are "looking for" these days, and what the status quo is regarding contraceptive responsibility. I would be scared to death.

Comment #4: You're the malaprop gift that keeps on giving. Marriages may begin with "happily ever after" but they sure don't end that way. Quite the opposite.

It's clear you didn't read the question--can you at least read your answer before you send it?

With regard to the rest: Anyone on the show who's been married--Richard, Grey's parents, Shepard, Izzy, Callie, George and so on--is now divorced or otherwise split. That's the perspective of the stories--all the characters' relationships, for one reason or another, are transitional. No Disney stuff here, sport. Your personal illusions of marriage--we're guessing you've never been there--are irrelevant to a discussion of the show and an annoying distraction.

Sucked. For about the last three years now Grey's Anatomy has a theme - six crappy episodes and then one brilliant one. It's like they figure out just how far they can push you to being ready to dump the whole lame thing and then suck you back in for a while longer.

This was the same stupid Grey's stuff we get way too much. Cristina is all about herself and surgeries. Every week we're trying to find a new couple to have sex together - or an old one just doing it again.

And it may not be called Torre's Anatomy, but Meredith looks awful these days. She's the fifth or sixth best looking woman on the show now - it's good she doesn't get much screen time.

The real problem is this - the characters that were the best on the show have either all left or been reduced to next to nothing. Addison, George, Izzy, Preston, the Mercy Westers, etc. - those were the ones who were good on here. Bailey and Sloan and Arizona can keep it afloat, but only so well.

Thank you for your review. I couldn't agree more. Specially with this:
"While everyone was working in a buddy system this week, in all truth, the only two pairs that worked were Meredith with Derek and Meredith with Christina. Maybe this show should return to the fact that it's 'Grey's Anatomy,' not 'Torres' Anatomy."
Sadly, I don't think those days will return.

Thank you for your review, I couldn't agree more.

All nuances are small. Like all giants are tall. Please don't continue to subject us to your use of any of the many words you don't understand--even if it leaves you speechless.

Please consider suspending your reviews until you can grasp the concept that "forced and painful" relationships--family, professional and personal--are cornerstones of the structure of the show. They're in there intentionally. They're not the result of failed acting, directing or writing. They're not intended to result in perpetual bliss, but in the stress and conflict that moves things along. Without them, what's left? The contrast between the characters' professional competence and their immature and flawed behavior in every other part of their lives is what drives all the character development and all the stories.

But you don't get it. You think the target is "and they lived happily ever after." No one could be more wrong about this show. If you remove all the bitchy Snow White crap from your reviews nothing's left.

I completely disagree with you, I think Sara Ramirez is amazing.. That's why I don't mind sometimes having "Torres Anatomy" I loved the pep talk she gave to Bailey, I think is normal that she felt that way considering the fact that she only had sex with her ex-husband before. If anything I think each character is having more screen time and more story lines than before but that's just my opinion.