'Saturday Night Live' Doesn't Think Gabourey Sidibe Is Too Fat
It's interesting that in E! Online's announcement about 'Precious' star Gabourey Sidibe being asked to host an upcoming episode of 'Saturday Night Live,' their writer referenced a couple of disrespectful quotes Howard Stern had made about Sidibe in early March. Stern makes a living by saying things that push the envelope of good taste, but these words seem to have resonated a bit more than usual."There's the most enormous, fat black chick I've ever seen," he said. "She is enormous. Everyone's pretending she's a part of show business and she's never going to be in another movie." He even took on Oprah Winfrey, who's certainly no stranger to weight struggles or lasting success. "Oprah's another liar, a filthy liar. She's telling an enormous woman the size of a planet that she's going to have a career."
The traditional views on women in Hollywood dictated that they be thin and beautiful! But those views aren't holding as much weight as they used to. Sidibe is a more accurate representation of the average American these days than Angelina Jolie or Evangeline Lilly will ever hope to be. Two years ago Sidibe was an average American.You won't hear Howard Stern or anyone else saying Jonah Hill or 'Lost's' Jorge Garcia are going to have a hard time finding work in Hollywood because of their size. It's a gender-specific double-standard that has been around for a long time in Tinseltown, but just as we finally saw beyond color to elect a black president, we're at a place now as a society where we're finally allowing women to simply be who they are, rather than who the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue says they're supposed to be.
"YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY"
Regardless of her physical size, anyone who has watched Gabourey Sidibe on any of her recent slew of talk show appearances has seen that she's witty, fun and just sparkling with joy and personality. And she is beautiful, by the way. Her eyes light up a room, and she has one of those smiles that can infect everyone around her.
There are people out there who are beautiful and there are people out there who are ugly, regardless of the size of their bodies. Sidibe lucked into being one of the pretty ones. In that regard, I guess, she's more Hollywood than average America. I've seen everyone who's interviewed her fall completely in love with her by the end of their time together."YOU ARE NOT ALONE"
Gabourey Sidibe is certainly not unprecedented as a large woman in entertainment, either. Nell Carter, of 'Gimme a Break' fame, was one of the most beloved entertainers in America throughout her career, and she was every bit as big as Sidibe.
Roseanne Barr very intentionally cast herself and John Goodman as the leads in her groundbreaking late-'80s sitcom 'Roseanne' because they were both heavier people, and neither were the traditional Hollywood image of beauty. Barr was fighting a Hollywood that perpetuated thinness to the point of creating eating disorders among female television stars who gained even ten pounds, like 'Growing Pains'' Tracey Gold.
More recently, Melissa McCarthy shined both in 'Gilmore Girls' and on ABC's 'Samantha Who?' as a beautifully funny plus-sized woman. In fact, her size had absolutely nothing to do with her character on the latter show; she was accepted for exactly who she was.While size was a factor for Nikki Blonsky's casting in 'Hairspray,' her figure hasn't kept her from continuing to find work. Many television roles do reflect the physical appearance of their characters, like America Ferrera's role in 'Ugly Betty,' but even so, these roles were always seen as exceptions to the unwritten rules about celebrity women.
"THE TIMES THEY ARE A-CHANGING"
Just as Hollywood is learning to accept that women are still as beautiful and relevant in their older years, like Betty White, as they are when they're young and modeling those Sports Illustrated bikinis, we're learning to accept women of all shapes and sizes. The entertainment capital of the world may have taken a little longer to figure it out than the rest of us, but words like Howard Stern's only exacerbate old stereotypes, and paint him as behind the times.
Ironically, ABC Family was forced to reach out in a nationwide talent search to fill out the cast of their Nikki Blonsky-fronted new series 'Huge.' We've reached a dynamic shift where plus-sized actors and actresses are being sought in larger numbers than they can be found working as waiters and waitresses in California.
The importance of this shift is that it can help each beautiful and talented young woman across this country realize that her worth isn't tied to her dress size. What's there to be afraid of when she has big, beautiful women like Gabourey Sidibe showing her that nothing need stand in the way of her dreams? Not the size of her figure, nor the words of a radio personality who's only interested in inciting conflict to boost ratings.Sidibe continues to receive offers. Aside from the hosting gig on 'Saturday Night Live,' she's been cast in a recurring role on Showtime's forthcoming Laura Linney-led comedy 'The C Word.' The sky is the limit for Gabourey Sidibe, because her size is no limit at all.

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