But just how truthful is all this stuff? I've read things about both Chris L and Roberto that make the final two seem not such a great deal anymore. It's rumored that Chris is a party guy...hanging out at his favorite local bar and bringing women home at a fairly regular clip. And Roberto supposed had been dating a girl for about 3 months (ok that's still a pretty new relationship at least in my point of view) and when he was picked for the show, he stopped taking her calls/txt's and disappeared from his Facebook account. Maybe its true maybe not. Maybe he just wasn't that into this girl either. Who knows? But if that is true (and there is nothing wrong with these guys having a life before going on the show) it kind of changes how you feel about them. Chris L.'s appeal to most is that he's a real hometown guy who just lost his mom and is struggling with his emotions over that. Kind of seems awkward if he is really a party animal. And Roberto has never spoken ill of any of the guys on the show, even Jerky Justin and Freaky Frank, so that was a big plus in my book. He seemed to genuinely be falling for Ali but wasn't ready to just jump all over the "It's only been 3 weeks but I'm madly in love and want to propose to you" wagon.

We all know it's for show and ratings, otherwise people wouldn't watch. But it is getting ridiculous now because they are trying to one-up themselves every season. Just how bad can it get? 24 guys come on and they are all married but one and the Bachelorette has to pick the single one??? Hmmmm not a bad idea actually LOL

i think chris is the guy really down to earth, and very loving, really cute just a nice down to earth guy go for it and lots of luck, thank god you did not get to hopefully not pick frank, just did not seem the right guy for you. lots of luck

I thought the Cris L would have been a better pair for Ali, he is very much of a family guy and his age looked better for her. They were so cute and a better pair than the rest.

"Frankly," I think Frank did the right thing. What made me nauseous his whining and crying about it? Could he not act like a man, tell her and get it over with and just leave? And what's up with Ali's "I gave up everything to be here?" The only thing I see that she gave up is a job and in return she gets to travel around the world with a new wardrobe, go on great dates with some nice guys, maybe her prince, a couple of frogs, eat fine meals, etc. - all for free. She may even find "true love," but if not, she's certainly exposed herself to meeting more eligible bachelors.

I personally think Frank was afraid of being picked. I think he used the ex-girlfriend as a way out. Just think what would have happened had Ali picked Frank....what do they do? Go home to Chicago where he doesn't even have a job and he lives with his parents? Frank got scared and he obviously bailed.

I feel sorry for Ali. Those tears were real -- not like the phoney tears she shed when she left Jake for her job. There's two great guys left but my feeling is that she doesn't pick either of them. I hope I'm wrong.

I am disgusted with the entire show. How fake can it get? IT's all about ratings - not real life.

I feel bad for Ali about Frank, because I really do believe she would have chosen him in the end. But at least it happened now. People are saying how bad it is for him to have waited this long, travel all the way to Tahiti before telling her he's in love with someone else, but it could have been when he was the final 2 after meeting her family or when she was up there with the last rose, giving it to him. I think the two guys she has left are great, and that she could easily be with either one. I hope the rumors that she doesn't choose either one are not true, because I think she should at least try a relationship out with one of them (I wouldn't mind if she rejected a proposal until after they were dating in the real world)... I guess we'll have to wait 2 weeks to find out... I personally would choose Chris, which means Ali will probably go for Roberto (a good choice as well!)

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I was disappointed with ABC/"The Bachelorette" for spending as much time as they did on Frank. I really had no desire to watch as Frank sputtered thru his speech to his ex about love. But what really pissed me off was the fact this jerk got to go to Tahiti...for free!!!! He got to fly to the other side of the world (on ABC's dime) to one of the most beautiful places in the world just to tell Ali the truth.

The best part was when he tells Chris Harrison "I don't know what to do!" You could almost see Chris thinking "Really? Really you don't know what to do?" What a douche. I don't really feel bad for Ali though. This entire tie, she has been trying to assure Frank of her love and that what they have is good and she wants to be with him. A woman should never have to reassure a man to that degree. Plus whoever she picked, whether it be Chris or Roberto, has to be watching the episodes with their freinds and families. I wonder what her pick was thinking when she was weeping about how she saw herself as Frank's wife and how he was the one and that she couldn't wait for him to meet her parents. Whichever guy she picked to marry (after watching this) I would think would feel like 2nd choice because she was obviously going to choose that loser Frank over either one of the great guys she ahs now.

Frank was a piece of scum. He didn't want to be alone..that's why he didn't tell Ali about the ex. He was afraid if he did Ali would drop him and then he would of taken the chance of his ex not taking him back. He went to the very orchestrated hotel room to see his ex and got her answer first. What a douche.

I thought all of Ali's boo-hooing about Frank was crazy. She had two hot guys up in the "fantasy suite" (what a tacky name). She's got two guys - one who openly said he loves her and one who says he's falling in love with her, and she's supposed to be heartbroken about wimpy Frank? Unless she has some wierd need for men who are going to fail her.

I think Jake is going to show up at the end. Then he and Ali will walk off into the sunset - or maybe go to the "fantasy" suite.