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Confession: I Don't Like 'Mad Men'

by Rich Keller, posted Jul 21st 2010 3:02PM
The self-destructive cast of 'Mad Men.'Before a flash mob heads to my house to give me the biggest atomic wedgie known to man, let me take a moment to set things straight about this piece. In no way am I telling you, the adoring audience who utterly loves AMC's 'Mad Men,' that you're total prats for watching this critically-acclaimed drama. That is absolutely, totally not true!

What I'm doing is giving one man's opinion on why I'm not into the show. Call it sad, call it insane, call it f----ng stupid, but it's just the opinion of little ol' me. Take it any way you feel.

Now it's not like I hate 'Mad Men' with all of my soul. Nor do I like the program, as this article suggests. In reality, I don't care about the show at all.

To me, it's just another workplace drama like so many others that have come and gone over the years. The show has its share of work & relationship issues, character triumphs and tragedies, and an occasional secret that changes the fate of everyone forever. The only difference it all takes place 40 years in the past!

Yet to many, 'Mad Men' is the greatest drama since the Greek tragedies. This is what drives my ambivalence about the program -- the holier than thou attitude every fan exudes when you say you're just not interested. You probably know what this is referring to: the feeling of over-importance given to shows like 'Mad Men' or 'Lost' where, if you don't see it, you're the stupidest person on the face of the planet. Then, when you bow to pressure and watch, you realize it isn't as mind-blowing as everyone said it was. After viewing a few episodes of 'Mad Men' this was exactly my opinion. And the reason why I began to ignore it.

Despite this general ennui there is one specific thing that irks me about the show: the characters -- all of them. I understand that 'Mad Men' creator Matthew Weiner wanted take the images people have of the early '60s -- the 20th century version of Camelot -- and expose it for its flaws. But, there are flaws and then there's self-destruction. And the staff of Sterling Cooper (now Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce) have a self-destructive streak several ad inserts wide.

Weiner made these characters pretty on the outside, but ugly deep within. The result: rather than connecting with them, the characters have been made unlikeable. True, there have been other dramatic characters out there, like Vic Mackey and Tony Soprano, who have been just as self-destructive. However, within them you could see some sort of redemption or bright spot in their lives that made you root for them. The folks of 'Mad Men' just continue to destroy themselves from the inside.

I know fans will say that I need to stay with the show in order to eventually see the good inside of these people. Honestly, I don't have the time for this. I never got into the whole serialized drama format where it sometimes takes eons for characters to grow and change. Though spanning four years in three seasons, the amount of change in some of the characters is slower than the speed of ice floes. There's not enough hours in the day, let alone a television season, to go watch the slow progression of these ad execs. And, as the golden times of the early '60s slowly transform into the cynical days of the mid-'60s, I don't see that changing any time soon.

There you have it -- my reason why 'Mad Men' is not on my Favorites list. I'll put on my biggest pair of boxers while I await for the wedgie mob.

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Vee

I found this article because I've just rented the second season of Mad Men and I honestly feel the same way!! so I googled, "I don't like Mad Men." I by no means think it isn't worth the effort, I just really don't care. The last drama that I really loved and committed to was Six Feet Under. Sopranos was like smoking too many cigarettes (speaking of MM), was fun when you were doing it but afterwards you just felt gross. Six Feet Under, from the pilot to the final episode kept me interested. Mad Men just feels like a fantasy of some dude's dad. Beyond furniture and fashion I'm not interested in the time period, sorry.

September 07 2010 at 12:12 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Sam

I like the show, but I cannot stand the "creator's" incessant explanations of the show. The seemingly endless documentaries and SAPs about the clothes, the shoes, the smoking, the booze, the attitudes towards women threaten to sap my interest in the show.

I get a little tired of Matt Weiner, Creator, talking about his Inspiration. Just show the show, Harvey - I'll figure it out.

July 24 2010 at 6:00 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Daune Calovini

I'm just so relieved someone else said it out loud. I forced myself to watch all of Season One and felt there was something wrong with me for not liking it too. Bottom line: I didn't like any of these characters, so I didn't want to spend time with them. And, being of a certain age, I didn't want to see people who reminded me of my parents and all the societal ills that led to their divorce. I'll get my depravity from Breaking Bad and Sons of Anarchy, thanks.

July 22 2010 at 12:59 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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Jennifer

I don't like it either. It sounds like everyone on it is entirely unpleasant, as far as I can tell. Why would I want to watch a bunch of sexist jerks, really? I'm happy to have been born after the sixties so I didn't have to live through this.

Cheers to the author of this post for coming out of the closet for not loving this show. I swear it's a gigantic sin these days not to love it.

July 22 2010 at 5:03 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Monique R

Hey genius, just who do you root for in Hamlet? Who is the "likeable" accessible character? I love how you got some attention (probably not too much judging by the few comments) here by crapping on some fans of a show that you have every right to hate. Why not give it a kick in the balls-- might as well cut into a small audience on a tiny network. Enjoy CSI and American Idol. Their fans aren't annoying at all!

July 22 2010 at 11:58 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Dash

This hep cat thinks MM is cool, but I see your point--I was born in the 60's, but if you had the same kind of show based in say the late 1940's--forget it. Just like I think "The Sting" sucks as a movie. I can't wait for MM to get psychedelic.

July 22 2010 at 11:16 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
izikavazo

I completely understand. I hated talking to Mad Men fans, they thought they were so clever. They acted like they knew something that I didn't. Then I finally sat down and watched until season 3. And now I'm one of those people. I agree that it shouldn't be necessary to go three seasons into a show before you care about these people, but honestly, I'm glad I did. I'm glad that I'm part of this rabid community. I wish we weren't all so pretentious, but this is one of the few situations when we know we're right about something, and we know that we're a tiny minority. We're also fully aware of how hard it is to like this show, so that just makes us all the more proud.
So suck it nerds!

July 22 2010 at 2:45 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Tommy

"[Referring to watching a TV Show] Honestly, I don't have the time for this."
- Rich Keller, TV Squad Contributor

Do you like gadgets? Maybe you could work for Engadget.

July 21 2010 at 10:15 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
BC McKinney

Not every show is going to be everyone's cup of tea. I despise "The West Wing' and 'The Office' (US and UK versions).

But your specific complaint that the characters are "unlikeable" is simply juvenile. There is no requirement in drama that characters be likeable, or worse, "relateable". I think Shakespeare's 'Hamlet' is an excellent drama, yet none of the principal characters is particularly likeable. Actually, many of the best dramas currently on have some pretty horrifying protaganists--'Breaking Bad', 'Dexter', 'True Blood', etc.

July 21 2010 at 8:56 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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Rich Keller

True, but the protaganists you mention on the other show have some redeeming value that you can connect to, despite their self-destructive attitudes. Even in Hamlet there were characters that you rooted for.

July 21 2010 at 11:31 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
lmike14

Same here. Is that attraction: Wow, they SMOKE in the workplace! They treat women like sex objects!

I'd rather watch an old movie, better dialogue, stories, acting (and smoking). Mad Men isn't a bad show, it just never grabbed me like Deadwood or Breaking Bad. Seems a bit over rated, like The Sopranos was a after the first few seasons.


July 21 2010 at 5:36 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
John F.C. Taylor

It's not that I don't like the show. I just don't find anything inbteresting about it. Suppisedly the ads are to entice viewers to watch the show. Nothing in the ads has ever caught my eye. At least it's not a reality show. Those things are a HUGE waste of TV air time.

July 21 2010 at 5:22 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

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