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Tyler Perry Opens Up About Childhood Abuse on 'Oprah' (VIDEO)

by Jason Hughes, posted Oct 21st 2010 3:38PM
Tyler Perry, 'The Oprah Winfrey Show'Warning: This clip contains graphic descriptions of physical and sexual abuse.

Celebrities often open up on 'Oprah Winfrey' (Weekdays, syndicated) in ways more intimate than they would anywhere else. Winfrey's good friend Tyler Perry was on Wednesday, and spoke candidly about the horrors of his childhood, from physical abuse he suffered at the hands of his father to sexual abuse at the hands of multiple neighbors.

It's a tragic story of despair that began when he was five or six years old and was still happening into his tenth year. While Perry's deep devotion to religion is well known now, even his faith betrayed him in his youth. He said the man he opened up to in the church "used God and the Bible against me, you know, to justify a lot of the things that were going on."

As many sufferers of abuse do, Perry tried to use his mind to escape the torments of his body, and related one time when he was being beaten by his father that something different happened. There was a park in his mind's eye that was his safe place to retreat to internally when he'd lost control of what was happening in the real world, but during this incident it took a long time to get there. When he finally "saw the grass coming" of the park, he also saw a version of himself running away.

"I couldn't get the little boy to come back to me," he said. "I couldn't get myself to come back to me. And I think I died that day." Or at least, as he may have come to understand later, his innocence died.

By opening up about the atrocities of his youth, Perry is telling all sufferers of abuse that anything is still possible in their lives. Look what he's come from and look what he's accomplished, and it all started by finding a direction and a venue to channel all of those emotions. For Perry it was writing, but there are so many outlets in life.

You can see in his face that even after all these years it is still painful to talk about, but it's therapeutic as well. "It's so disgusting," he said. "What these people did to this little boy."

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Ronnie

I have heard many abuse stories and always find them to be appalling but Tyler Perry's really struck me as heart wrenching...I applaud his candor...

October 22 2010 at 2:01 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Redboy235

If I recall this is the second time he has made comments regarding his childhood.How ironic is it that he has to bring this up weeks after his buddy Eddy long accusation of sleeping with the boy's in his church. Is this a way for him to play the feel sorry for me role.

October 22 2010 at 10:18 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Celina

Randy, it is important for people today to understand that this is happening and that it can be overcome. It does not have to become an obstacle in life.

What I don't understand is why you think he has to announce his sexual preference to make his point.

October 21 2010 at 5:48 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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divineone

Good for you Mr. Perry for expressing what has been hunting you for all these years. I think it takes courage to address these issues, I hope you were able as a GODLY man to address your hurt to those who have betray you. If not I pray that one day you find peace and be able to let it go, and maybe one day I will be able to do the same too. Praying that you continue to be a blessing to us as the man God has called you to be. Love Always Your Friend.

October 21 2010 at 9:43 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Randy

Its sad of what happen to Tyler Perry as a child but i dont think that was nessasary for it to be told now in all these years, he refuse to discuss whether he is gay or not , he might as well come all the way out if he is gonna come out.

October 21 2010 at 4:55 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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kay

Oprah asked him about his childhood. Sadly this is what Tyler remembers. Helluva childhood isn't it. His story can give hope to others that have been abused. His sexual orientation is no one's business!

October 22 2010 at 9:32 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

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