Tamra Barney and Alexis Bellino have been at war (via text message) for a few weeks, ever since a party at which Gretchen insulted Tamra and Tamra made a joke involving mace.

Finally the two met face to face on 'The Real Housewives of Orange County' (Sun., 10PM ET on BRVO) to clear the air. But of course the only result was another fight that each claimed to have won.

"Where the hell were you when Gretchen was calling me an evil b----!?" fired off Tamra. Alexis said, "I told her she was out of line."

"Did you come up to me and say I'm sorry?" asked Tamra. Alexis countered, "Why would I ... say sorry for something Gretchen did?" Well, apparently all her other girlfriends apologized on behalf of Gretchen.

"I did disapprove, and I told her that ... but there's no reason for you to pull out mace either." Tamra shouted, "It was a joke! If you don't have a sense of humor, I'm sorry!"