Most men have tried to move too fast early in a relationship. On 'The Millionaire Matchmaker' (Thu., 9PM ET on Bravo), Abe took even that age-old problem a step further. It's one thing to maybe make a move too soon, or come across a little too aggressively.

Abe decided that on their first date, he should invite her back to his place -- already a risky thing considering they'd barely started eating -- where he wanted her to join him in his hot tub. She was immediately uncomfortable with that option, though we're not sure he picked up on it.

When Patti Stanger yelled at him for the boneheaded move, his retort was, "She's beautiful. I can't deny that."

Stanger said that putting a woman in a bathing suit on a first date is like trying to see the goods before you buy the product. One thing's for certain. It's a sure way to probably not getting a second date.