Cynthia Bailey is far from subtle when Phaedra Parks asks if the ladies want to tack an extra day onto their girls' weekend. "No!" she exclaims on 'The Real Housewives of Atlanta' (Sun., 10PM ET on BRAVO).

All the wedding plans expenses are getting to her. "Your wedding's, ooh, in less than a week now," says Phaedra. "Just dealing with some final stuff," Cynthia explains.

"Have you decided on if you're gonna go on a honeymoon or not?" Kandi Burruss asks innocently. Cynthia answers, "I'm not sure," and then buries her head in her hands and begins to cry.

Kandi is shocked. "I'm sorry, Cynthia. I didn't mean to ask anything that personal..." The bride-to-be says she's OK but excuses herself from the table.

While Phaedra Parks is recovering from her C-section, the rest of the 'Real Housewives of Atlanta' (Sun., 10PM ET on BRAVO) ladies join Kandi Burruss to discuss relationships on her "Kandi Koated Nights" webcast.

Really, the hostess wants to talk "freak numbers," asking them to rate their sexuality on a scale of one to 10. She then brings in a stripper -- "Mr. Luscious" -- to test their scores.

The "entertainer" grabs Sheree and begins gyrating against her, despite her repeatedly shouting "No!" and looking horrified. Mr. Luscious strips down completely, and Nene Leakes aptly sums up the experience by saying, "Girl, I need therapy after that!"

On 'The Real Housewives of Atlanta' (Sun., 10PM ET on BRAVO), Phaedra is very pregnant but doesn't know her due date. She's been going to a shady doctor and has "just not kept up with stuff like that," she tells Kandi.

Maybe the real reason she doesn't know (or won't admit) something so basic is related to her mother, sitting nearby. Phaedra says, "In my family, you can't have [a baby] unless you married." Her mother nods: "That's momma's rules."

A legit doctor comes in and announces that she's 40 weeks along, i.e., ready to pop. "The doctors I was seeing, well, they just have different theories than you," Phaedra tells him. "This is not a theory," he says. Nor is this something that can be delayed or denied any longer.

On 'The Real Housewives of Atlanta' (Mon., 9PM ET on BRAVO), some very candied candid sex talk -- in front of a Housewife's mother, no less -- makes NeNe Leakes extremely uncomfortable.

Kandi Burruss admits that she and her mother Joyce "talk about dildos ... Honestly, I was supposed to give you one for Mother's Day," she tells Joyce. NeNe says, "The thought of my mom using a dildo ... Honey, I need to go to the psychiatric ward."

But it gets much worse. Conversation topics include combining oral sex with Pop Rocks candy and putting powdered sugar in one's "vajayjay."

When revisiting the subjects later, NeNe gets nauseous. Covering her mouth, she says, "Oh, I almost gagged just then."

If you've been watching the current season of The Real Housewives of Atlanta, you've seen an uptick in the nastiness. Wig-pulling, sniping, one wife referring to another as a monster, bad singing ... It's been a wallow in bad behavior. As shocking as what's been on the air, this news yesterday was shockingly real: A.J. Jewell, the fiance of Real Housewives of Atlanta's Kandi Burruss, died after a parking lot brawl Friday night.

On the show, Kandi is the newest wife (although she was not presently married), and the successful singer/songwriter in the course of this season, she's been struggling with her engagement to A.J. He had six children from a previous relationship, and Kandi's mother has been against her daughter marrying him. Mama even refused to have a picture taken with A.J.

The news that this man has died is truly surprising and sad.